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    Never Try to Prove Guests Wrong, Even When They Are


    Coming up through the ranks in the hotel industry, I remember hearing my managers use the old adage, “The customer is always right.” At one hotel they even put a sign up that said, “Rule number one: the customer is always right. Rule number two: when the customer is wrong, see rule number one.” In recent years I have learned that the original phrase dates back to 1909 and is now credited to Harry Gordon Selfridge, who was the founder of Selfridge’s department stores in London. Of course in the vacation rental business we refer to our customers as guests, but the idea is the same.
    As my frontline career progressed from being a bellman to hotel management and, for many years now, to lodging industry sales and service training, I have long since realized that often customers are flat out wrong. Sometimes, the customers themselves are the cause of problems that occur. Yet one thing I have learned for sure is that any effort to prove guests wrong will surely fail. At most, it will result in having them simply fail to return next time, thus resulting in a lost opportunity for repeat business. At worst, it can result in us trampling on their emotions and causing them to blast a company’s reputation via social media and online guest reviews.

    When it comes to our most fundamental needs as human beings and as guests, food, clothing and shelter are certainly at the top of the list. Right behind those basic physical needs comes our human need for validation. This is especially important in the vacation rental industry where our guests are living out what is most likely the single most important event of their calendar year – their annual vacation. When something goes wrong to negatively impact their big plans, what we need most is to hear someone say, “I understand how you feel” and “I apologize that this occurred.” Nothing good will result from a service provider’s effort to place blame on the guest.

    Recently I experienced firsthand what it feels like as a guest to be blamed for a deficiency in service, and in this case it truly was not my fault. While staying at an upscale hotel in New York City, I found myself working late in my room as usual, so I decided to order dinner from room service. I still remember what a superstar of hospitality the in-room dining operator was as she patiently helped me with questions on healthy choices on the menu and took time to empathize with how tragic it was that I was stuck working instead of enjoying my visit to the city. When I called back for desert I was even more impressed because she asked if I wanted to pre-order my breakfast. What’s more, when I ordered my coffee, she specifically asked if I preferred cream or milk, which I certainly noted as being above and beyond.

    The next morning, right on time, came the knock on the door, and a friendly smile was on the other side as my room service waiter enthusiastically greeted me, taking time to review my order to make sure it was correct. “Wow,” I thought, “He sure seemed awfully happy to be working at such an early hour.” When I sat down to eat the first thing I noticed was that there was neither milk nor cream. I actually felt bad about it, knowing the waiter had confirmed that everything looked perfect just moments before and that he would have to make a special trip back.

    With high expectations based on the great service so far, I called in-room dining once again to request the milk. This time I got a different operator, and when I explained that there was no milk or cream on the tray, her response was, “Well, you have to ask for it when you order.” Now normally I might have had some self-doubt as to whether I did in fact request it, but in this case I recalled all too well how the operator before had proactively offered me the choice. Being in the hospitality business, I managed to restrain my reaction to the human emotions I felt when I was blamed for this error. Sure enough, the smiling waiter promptly brought the missing item. However, for most guests, comments such as these trigger a negative, emotionally based reaction (or over-reaction) that can ruin an otherwise positive service experience.  

    If you have not done so recently, perhaps now is a great time to remind your hospitality team of the proper way to handle guest complaints. First, train them to listen attentively without interrupting as the guest shares their story. Often the guest will have a tale to tell about how the seemingly little thing that went wrong was really a big deal for them. Show that you are listening by maintaining eye contact and using appropriate (serious yet attentive) facial expressions. Next, express empathy and understanding by saying something such as “I understand how you might feel,” or “I can imagine feeling the same way.” Now the most important part: Apologize even if it is not your fault or the rental company’s fault. Sometimes we in the hospitality industry have to apologize for things well outside of our sphere of influence, such as the rain that spoiled their vacation or the car problems they had en route. Then it is time to resolve the problem, offering alternatives if possible. Giving the guest a choice leads them back to a rational line of thinking.

    Finally, the main lesson I wanted to share as a reminder in this post: Never try to prove the guest wrong, even if they are!

    Doug Kennedy is President of the Kennedy Training Network, Inc. a leading provider of customized training programs and telephone mystery shopping services for the lodging and hospitality industry. Doug continues to be a fixture on the industry's conference circuit for hotel companies, brands and associations (including VRMA), as he been for over two decades. Since 1996, Doug's monthly hotel industry training articles have been published worldwide, making him one of the most widely read hotel industry training writers. Visit KTN at: www.kennedytrainingnetwork.com or email him directly at doug@kennedytrainingnetwork.com
     
    1 Comment

    The fact is that people are creatures who love rules.

    September 21, 2017 05:44 AM by Joseph Campbell

    The fact is that people are creatures who love rules. They seek them unconsciously, as children. In all books about the education of children it is written that our kids just need the framework. And if we do not clearly elaborate the rules of interaction with them, they lose the feeling of support under their feet. If they run out of vain - say a solid parental word, clearly state what can be done, what can't, and what - in no way. However, it is very hard to be good to everyone and behave as someone else expect it, but, anyway, the customer is always right! Best, expert from Ultius pro.

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